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We'll hunt tonight
Words, gestures and clothing
The children who couldn't speak
People who can't understand
Checklist for successful
communication
How to use verbal language
Why do we want to communicate?
Why is he speaking?
But he doesn't mean what he says!
words!words! words!
Does'ch'a'mean'tea'?
We don't seem to speak the same language!
The generation gap
The knowledge gap
Characteristics of everyday speech
Language and thinking
Speaking in different ways
What are they saying?
Don't play the wrong music!
Talking to foreign visitors
How to understand body language
Look as well as listen!
I can read him like a book... or can I?
But it's only natural!
Some non-verbal language is'natural'and some isn't
The head toss
The history of the head toss meaning 'No'
The true and authentic head toss!
What does this position mean?
Curtain up!
What is she saying... What is he thinking?
What do these gestures mean?
'She's a typical librarian!
But these are real people!
What about you?
How to read a face
Our faces and-our personalities
Our faces and our expressions
Eyes: the windows of the soul
Your eyes and your personality
Eye contact in conversation
How to use space
The Englishman's home is his castle
Talking, sitting and standing
Give me elbow room!
Some general guidance for visitors to North America and Britain
Crowded places
Do you touch people?
Touching in four cities
Common touching and uncommon touching in the West
How to recognise the roles people play
An introduction to roles
Three people in every person
How to recognise a parent
How to recognise an adult
How to recognise a child
Can you recognise the parent, the adult and the child in yourself?
Don't get your lines crossed!
Things aren't what they seem to be!
What sort of game do you play?
I'm no good at anything really
They are no good
I'm only trying to help
If only I wasn't so busy
Sweetheart
Kiss me? You must be joking!
Why are games important?
It's not alway easy
How to get on with people
How to be a good listener
Repeating what the other person has said
Encouraging and discouraging
How to be a good
conversationalist
Statements and questions
Open and closed questions
The'agree with me'question
Double questions
Agreeing and disagreeing
A good conversation
Politeness and'pass-time'
conyersarions
Do you often keep away from other people?
Do you often exchange politenesses with people?
Do you talk to people just to pass the time?
How to start a conversation in Brirain
Another approach
Conversational flowchart
How to interest someone of the opposite sex
First stage
Second stage
How to argue
Do you really want to argue?
If you don't want to hurt the other person
Three ways of arguing
Ethos
Logos
Pathos
All three!
General advice
Some important points for thinkers and arguers
Facts
Generalisations
Hypothesis
Criticising the other person
Some very poor arguments!
How to protect yourself against salespeople
How to observe the customer...YOU!
The salesperson is taught what to say to you
On the telephone
The questions a salesperson uses
It isn't only words that sell!
The ideal interview
Last thoughts
Answers
Acknowledgements